2013年9月18日水曜日

9/11 Discussion on Social Intelligence

First week, second class, Harvard Business Review. Quite a jump, eh?

I found the article very interesting because of it being a piece of liberal arts; the passage included bits of biology, psychology, and of course, business. This various mixture of subjects made it easy to read because I'm more familiar with the natural science than the social science. It also helped me understand different fields at the same time, which I found convenient. The content itself was equally interesting. 

Social intelligence is contagious. I think this can be interpreted in both a positive and negative way. Warm environments can have a lively atmosphere along with kind bosses that makes the company more productive. However tense offices, such as in Japan, can sicken the workers from their job, colleagues and superiors. I think there is no need to perfectly follow the traditional Japanese way- having every action restricted to ranks- because it has almost no positive effects. Obviously, the ones with higher ranks will feel proud. Some may even become arrogant. On the other hand, people with inferior ranks have to consider how to provide hospitality to those superior to them, which has nothing to do with work. Showing respect is necessary to make better relationships, but overdoing it is never good. Thus, abolishing such cultures is not the solution, but alleviating the intensity can make a comfortable environment. 

Back in high school, I spent days and weeks to my swim team. Toin Gakuen, my school, is somewhat famous for its strict rules, which applies to the sports teams too. No offense, but one of my coaches was the last person I want to provoke. During swim meets, sometimes it felt very hard to talk to my coaches after races. However, now, at ICU, the american football team always has a warm atmosphere, thus, it is easy to get in touch with superiors.

To sum up, social intelligence is something we feel and learn through experience, as biologically mentioned in the text. I think knowing this fact can help me keep in mind of how to make the workplace productive in the future.

9/9 First Impressions

Hi! This is my first post of the term.

Brief, firm, warm; the start of fall term was about first impressions. It's always good to make a positive impression, as it may have a positive effect. For example, facial expression can determine ones mental condition. Those who look sick may possibly be sick. Those who are smiling all day should have had a good day. I agree to this commonly known psychological theory because I, myself, have first impressions of others. Ken, whom I met for the second time since our lecture from spring term, gave me(us) a warm, welcoming expression and attitude  when I entered the classroom. I immediately imagined a friendly educator that will support us throughout the term, and evaluate our efforts from an objective point of view. 

However, when we discussed about eye contact, later in the class, I reflected on something I knew; The Japanese tend to avoid direct eye contact, unalike Americans who look in the eye when speaking. Obviously, this seems like a cultural difference. Moreover, I saw on TV that it is natural for primates, even up to the sophisticated ones including humans, try to dodge the eyes because it can offend them. In my opinion, whether these are facts or a superstitions should be investigated, so I did a quick search. Here's what I found. 

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3596353/?tool=pmcentrez&rendertype=abstract
I guess TVs are not always wrong.

Another thing I thought about eye contact is where we look. Ken mentioned the center of the forehead, and t reminded me of the Hindi's red dots. What are they even for? Easier eye contact? Again, I searched for an answer, as it bugged me for a while.

The red dot is called "bindi", and they have several meanings.
http://www.religionfacts.com/hinduism/things/bindi.htm
http://www.harekrsna.de/Tilak.htm
According to the link, it can also be interpreted as an eye, so I guess gazing at it is quite natural in a way. The "bindi" is also a type of "tilak", so it is acting as a symbol to worship Shiva, the Hindi god who has 'the third eye'. Therefore, the red dots are not for eye contact, but for religious purpose that coincided to be easy to catch sight.


Now I think I fully mastered first impressions. I feel ready for new encounters.